Uncontested Divorce:
Because Breaking Up Shouldn't Break the Bank!

Bates Family Law has streamlined the Uncontested Divorce process, offering divorcing couples in the Rochester area our most efficient and economical solution.

Myth #1: Divorce Mediation Is Only for Simple Cases

Many believe that only straightforward divorces are suitable for mediation. In reality, complex cases can benefit more from mediation, as a skilled mediator can assist couples in navigating intricate issues collaboratively.

 Myth #2: Both Spouses Must Be Agreeable for Mediation to Work

It’s a common misconception that mediation requires amicable relations between spouses. While cooperation can facilitate the process, mediators are trained to manage high-conflict situations, helping contentious couples reach mutually satisfactory agreements.

Myth #3: Mediation Is Inappropriate for Couples with Significant Assets

Some assume that substantial assets complicate mediation. However, mediation offers a platform for creative solutions, allowing couples to tailor agreements that address complex financial portfolios effectively.

Myth #4: The Mediator Makes the Decisions

Contrary to this belief, mediators do not impose decisions. Their role is to facilitate discussions, provide legal information, and empower couples to make their own informed choices.

Myth #5: Mediation Puts One Spouse at a Disadvantage

Concerns about power imbalances are common. A competent mediator ensures a balanced process, requiring a complete financial disclosure from both parties and fostering an environment where each spouse’s voice is heard.

Myth #6: Choosing Mediation Means Settling for Less

Opting for mediation doesn’t equate to compromising one’s interests. Instead, it allows couples to reach equitable agreements without the adversarial nature of court proceedings, often resulting in more satisfactory outcomes for both parties. 

Myth #7 – Divorce Mediation Is Not Necessary Because The Law Is Clear Cut

Sometimes it is and sometimes it isn’t.  Even couples who feel this is the case can find divorce mediation helpful. They can benefit from the mediator taking down the terms of their agreement, making sure everything has been addressed, and arranging to formalize their matter through the court system. And all at a cost that is substantial less than a typical attorney’s hourly rate. 

Understanding these realities can help couples in Rochester approach divorce mediation with confidence. For personalized guidance, contact Bates Family Law at (585) 433-4661 or visit our website to schedule a free consultation.

 

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What our clients are saying...

“Alison represented our daughter from birth until the finalization of her adoption. She was the most knowledgeable, patient, and thorough attorney we could possibly have worked with. While navigating the Family Court system can be incredibly confusing and taxing, Alison took the time to explain every step, and advocated tirelessly for the best interests of our child.”

– Julia C.

“Alison helped me get my kids back in my life! I had an order of protection against me that didn’t allow me to see my kids for 3 months... The day after the court date I was able to see my kids again... I can’t imagine what the outcome would have been if I didn’t have Alison in my corner.  Forever Grateful!”

– Mike P.

“Alison Bates is not just my attorney. Alison Bates is a warrior who battled to make sure my son and I could be together. Alison Bates was my light on a very dark, lonely and scary path. Now I look into my son's eyes and it is hard not to think about Alison and all she did in helping me maintain that unbreakable bond.”

– Mark I.

“Alison has been phenomenal during a very challenging divorce. Her empathy and compassion for my situation while being direct with the realities of the legal system were reassuring and made me feel secure in the path we were taking every step of the way...”

– Tiffany R.

“Alison was a source of compassion and support to me during a very difficult time. She is very knowledgeable and a strong advocate when needed. I appreciated her prompt responses and straightforward manner. When things became difficult, I felt glad to have her in my corner.”

– Kristen H.

When I first met Alison, I was a recently separated father experiencing parental alienation and was having limited access to my child despite my requests to the mother. Alison explained to me that what I was experiencing was not uncommon early on in the separation process and fought hard on my behalf to resolve the matter in a fair and equitable way. Alison was efficient, reliable, and provided clear communication throughout the entire process. I would highly recommend her representation in any family law or divorce proceedings.

– Cory G.

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