Divorce is undeniably a challenging life event that often comes with emotional and financial turmoil. However, there is a glimmer of hope amidst the chaos - the option of an uncontested divorce. In an uncontested divorce, couples in the Rochester area can navigate the...
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The Power of Divorce Mediation: Empowering Couples in Rochester to Shape Their Future
Divorce is a challenging and emotionally charged process that can leave couples feeling overwhelmed and uncertain about their future. However, there is a powerful alternative to traditional divorce proceedings: divorce mediation. This collaborative and structured approach empowers couples to actively participate in the decision-making process, find mutually beneficial solutions, and preserve their relationships even in the face of dissolution. Below are a few of the compelling reasons why couples should choose divorce mediation as their preferred method of navigating this life transition.
Dividing Retirement Assets
In New York State, all marital property is subject to the state’s Equitable Distribution Law. This includes, but is not limited to, assets such as real property, personal property, checking/savings accounts, and of course retirement accounts. Traditional/Roth IRAs, 401(k)s, 403(b)s, and 457(b)s are the types that most often come to mind and frequently are the simplest to deal with. Another type of retirement account that is waning in popularity and sometimes overlooked, but potentially holds the greatest value, is a pension.
Pensions and Divorce
In New York State, all marital property is subject to the state’s Equitable Distribution Law. This includes, but is not limited to, assets such as real property, personal property, checking/savings accounts, and of course retirement accounts. Traditional/Roth IRAs, 401(k)s, 403(b)s, and 457(b)s are the types that most often come to mind and frequently are the simplest to deal with. Another type of retirement account that is waning in popularity and sometimes overlooked, but potentially holds the greatest value, is a pension.
Grounds for Divorce
Divorce is a legal action that ends or dissolves a marriage. In New York State, you must have “grounds,” or a legally acceptable reason, for divorce.
Advantages of Divorce Mediation in Rochester
Going through a major life event such as divorce is a significant and stressful experience. It’s not only emotionally devastating and can make you feel out of control, but the divorce process itself can be long, drawn-out and destructive to everyone involved, including your children. Divorce mediation offers a way to regain that sense of control, as well as many additional benefits when compared to a typical, lawyer-driven divorce. Follow the link to see the five biggest advantages to choosing divorce mediation.
Divorce Mediation Myths in Rochester
Despite being a process that is quite possibly thousands of years old and been in use in its modern form for decades, mediation is still a mystery to many and often has many misconceptions associated with it. Divorce mediation is of course no different. Below are some of the most common divorce mediation myths debunked.
Dear Rochester, Retire Well Podcast
In this episode, David Pulcini welcomes guest Alison Bates, a matrimonial and family law attorney at Bates Family Law, P.C. Together, they discuss the financial and legal considerations that come with the divorce process and answer frequently asked divorce questions.
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The Power of Uncontested Divorce: Helping Couples in Rochester Navigate Their Divorce

The Power of Divorce Mediation: Empowering Couples in Rochester to Shape Their Future

What is a Note of Issue?

Dividing Retirement Assets

Pensions and Divorce

Grounds for Divorce

Advantages of Divorce Mediation in Rochester

Divorce Mediation Myths in Rochester

Dear Rochester, Retire Well Podcast

My Two-House, Duffel-Bag Life

What is Discovery?

What is a Request for Judicial Intervention (RJI)?
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